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Just wanted to say you’re a great writer.

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Dana's avatar

This year my 9 year old wrote a letter to Santa asking him to "make grandpa alive." He died unexpectedly last year (suicide). It broke my heart because my 9 year old was super close with him, but never seemed to really process his death. Santa had to write him a letter explaining why he couldn't bring him back. There were lots of tears from both of us.

"Then there's the last item on your list. I want you to know you're not alone in asking for me to bring back a loved one who has died. Hundred of thousands of kids write to me making similar wishes every year. I wish more than anything I had the ability to grant their wishes and yours. Nothing would make me happier than to bring your grandpa back. Unfortunately, not even my magic can do that. But here's something you should know. You have magic within you to keep the people you love alive even after they're gone. Every time you think about your grandpa. Every time you talk about him. Every time you spend time doing something the two of you used to do together...you are keeping his memory alive. I know it's not the same as him being there with you, but his love is always there. That's why this year I wanted to give you an extra gift, a way to spend some time doing something that you and your grandpa used to do together. There's a gift card in here for Chuck e' Cheese. Take your brothers and have fun. Play all the games. Win all the prizes. Buy some ice cream. Think of your grandpa while you do, and know that when you're thinking of him, he's there with you. Love, Santa Clause"

I imagine there are so many kids making similar wishes this year after all the loss these past two years. Covid has taken so much. Christmas might not feel "normal" this year, but it will make the next time we can all be together that much sweeter.

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